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Kovels on Antiques & Collectibles Latest Trends
Posted by: | CommentsDecorators like to follow the latest trends. A recent list suggested these: “In” are dark interiors, “Out” are all white walls. Taxidermy birds are “in” but antlers are “out.” Throne-like wood chairs are “in,” and modern plastic furniture is “out,” etc. I wonder where these trends are followed, because none appear where I live. Is it really true that the “Dark Ages” or the “Medieval look” is replacing “white and minimal”? I am happy with “hodgepodge eclectic.” My house is filled with furniture and accessories found one-at-a-time at flea markets and auctions.
Mailboxes with personality are becoming more popular in the suburbs. We have a brass hotel mailbox, the kind that was used near a drop-down chute next to a hotel elevator. A home builder near here gives his customers a special new mailbox, shaped like the house, when they’re ready to move in.
One way to date mid century jewelry: white gold was first used in the early 1940s. Pink gold also became more popular around that time. An iconic piece from that era was a bow-shaped pin in yellow and pink gold with small rubies set to look like the ribbon that forms the bow.
Tool collectors seem to change focus from decade to decade. Hand-wrought iron tools were popular in the 1950s. They represented the early history of tools and looked great in the then-popular room with the “Colonial Williamsburg look.” Coopers’ tools were wanted in the 1960s for Arts and Crafts rooms. Braces intrigued the 1970s collector, and wooden planes were hot in the 1980s. Now it’s tiptop condition that attracts tool collectors (see Warman’s Tools Field Guide)
The fabrics of the 50′s are coming back in style and are even being reproduced. Barkcloth with traditional patterns is back.
Frisbee collectors want advertising Frisbees made in the past 25 years. Look for frisbees that have ads for McDonald’s, Kodak, Keebler, Coppertone, Tony the Tiger, movies and the Olympics. Prices for mint Frisbees range from $20 to $30.
Uniforms are becoming popular with companies and schools and the look is becoming fashionable. Vintage clothing stores report brisk sales in low-priced uniforms from service station attendants or delivery personnel. Military uniforms have always been in fashion.
TIPS:
Save your broken dishes, vases and other decorative china to make mosaic stepping stones or tabletops for your garden. Chipped vases can still be used for flowers, or turned upside down to make toad homes.
Never store an iron pan while it is damp. To be sure it is dry, heat it on a stove burner for a minute.
If a thread in a woven fabric, carpet or sweater pulls or tears, do not cut it. Get a crochet hook or large pin and weave the thread into the fabric.
If you are buying a safe to store coins, jewelry, valuable papers, paper money, rare sports cards or other valuables, don’t forget that a thief can just carry the safe away if is is light and not bolted to a wall or floor. We laughed at the full-page ad in our local newspaper that shows a mailman carrying a boxed new safe to the buyer’s front door. A large safe, however, may be too heavy to put anywhere but in the garage or basement and too big to fit through a standard door.
Survey: Most Baby Boomers Lack a Plan to Care for Parents
Posted by: | CommentsThe survey of 600 adults ages 45 to 65, conducted for the HomeInstead Senior Care network, also found:
• 31% don’t know how many medications their parents take.
• 34% don’t know whether their parents have a safe deposit box or where the key is.
• 36% don’t know where their parents’ financial information is located.
“The majority of caregivers we work with have done no advance planning,” says Jeff Huber, president of Home Instead Senior Care, a company that provides non-medical care services. “It is not important until it’s urgent. So much stress and uncertainty down the road can
be prevented.” Lack of planning can lead to serious complications when decisions need to be made quickly, says palliative care nurse practitioner Mimi Mahon, an associate professor at George Mason University in Virginia.
“It’s vitally important to plan ahead and have these conversations with parents, or families can act out of fear and make mistakes when emergencies arise.”
Prescription drugs are of particular concern. In the survey, 49% couldn’t name a single drug their parents took. Ask parents about their medications and, if necessary, do research, experts say. Find out the dose, what it’s for, who prescribed it and why. People 65 and older account for about a third of all medications prescribed in the
U.S., according to the National Institutes of Health, and older patients are more likely to have long-term and multiple prescriptions, which could lead to unintentional misuse.
“It’s kind of a never-ending process for caregivers,” says Sandy Markwood, head of the National Association of Area Agencies on Aging, part of the Department of Health and Human Services. “It gets further complicated when there is more than the family practitioner. A parent might have several specialists. It’s a lot for a caretaker to keep
up.”
Markwood says the Administration on Aging, also under HHS, has been encouraging better record-keeping by seniors and stronger communication between seniors and caretakers since Hurricane Katrina.
“Then you had a situation when seniors were evacuated without their medications and no one knew what medications they were on,” Markwood says. “Doctors had to start from scratch.”
One must-have answer for caretakers:What drugs can parents go without and which ones must be taken on schedule. For instance, blood pressure and anti-depressant medications cannot be missed, Mahon says. The bottom line, she says, is being a staunch advocate for your parents’ health care starts with “having conversations and putting plans in place.”
Source: Janice Lloyd, USA Today, June 21, 2011
Storing Collectibles; May Not Be a Good Idea
Posted by: | CommentsTip from Kovels – June 2011 issue
Storing collectibles now and hoping they’ll go up in value later may or may not be a good idea. Storing pottery, glass and metal in a dry attic or basement is usually OK, but not if the rooms get very hot (over 90 degrees) or very cold (below freezing). Furniture can dry out or rot in climates you don’t enjoy yourself. Linens attract insects. Be wary of plastic bags that could melt in high heat. Plastic jewelry, toys and purses can melt or disintegrate over time; heat destroys plastic. Rented storage should be air-conditioned and heated, but it’s expensive. If you don’t have room or the right conditions for storage, it might be better to sell – even at low prices.
Legacy Table for House of Hope Banquet
Posted by: | CommentsAdvice on Buying Artwork
Posted by: | CommentsI love Mrs. Howard Personal Shopper! This week is Q&A with Phoebe: Incorporating Artwork.
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16 Places to Visit in Kansas City
Posted by: | CommentsI had an adventurous long weekend with my friend Liz in Kansas City recently. As we arrived in Kansas City we went to Traditions (http://www.traditionsfurniture.com/) Lovely store with Stickle furniture and unique accessories all set in an old stone building. Liz then introduced me to Penzey’s Spices (http://www.penzeys.com/) What a treat! I left with vanilla beans, chili powder, cumin, and basil. I was amazed at the variety and the freshness. I didn’t know there was more that one kind of cumin!
Our next stop was The Curious Sofa (http://curioussofa.com/) Enjoyable store with clean lined furniture, shelves full of soft bedding, earthy accents, and unique jewelry. Before leaving we asked the helpful gal behind the counter to suggest a place to have dinner. Café Provence (http://www.kcconcept.com/cafeprovence/) owned by a French family just across the parking lot was highly recommended. I had the sea bass and Liz had the chicken with a morrell mushroom sauce. Delicious! We decided it was one of top 5 memorable meals we had ever had. The service was fantastic.
The next day our travels took us to The Lamp Maker (http://kansascity.citysearch.com/profile/5835064/kansas_city_mo/dave_smith_the_lamp_maker.html) A must if you need lighting or shades in any shape or color. Take your measurements – they are not on line and don’t ship. Found a wonderful selection of chandelier shades here. My favorites were a gold shade with black bees and a black shade with a molted gold lining. This is one place I will have to re-visit when I’m in the area again. Before leaving we asked the helpful staff to suggest some other places we shouldn’t miss.
The ladies at The Lamp Maker sent us to Hiles Two, just across the street. (http://www.insiderpages.com/b/3716970400) – fun store of accessories for home and wardrobe. I was delighted that Liz found the perfect scarf for an outfit she had been trying to accessorize for 5 years!!
Hiles Too sent us to Webster House (http://www.websterhousekc.com/%20). We were so glad we didn’t miss this place! We had a delicious lunch in the setting of a restored school house. After eating our yummy food and wanting to move into the ladies restroom – absolutely gorgeous decor – I’m sure they wouldn’t have notice me!! We shopped downstairs in rooms that offered kitchen fare, baby and child clothes and toys, antiques and accessories for home and fashion. The caramel corn is dessert to take with you and enjoy on your trip home.
From Webster House we wandered down the street to the Peruvian Connection Outlet store (http://www.peruvianconnection.com/home); one of 4 stores in the world for this catalog company based in Kansas City. Liz found another scarf and I wanted to buy half the store. I love clothing that feels soft and comfortable. The Peruvian Connection sent us down the street to the Black Bamboo (www.black-bamboo.com) saying it was a visual treat. I couldn’t have said it better. Fun design store with lots of Asian influence furniture and very unique items. I loved the red wall behind the counter!
That evening we chose our dinner destination by a newspaper ad! Fridas –(http://www.kcrestaurantguide.com/fridas.html) best Mexican we have had in a long time. Fridas offered a very fresh and fun twist on Mexican food. Guacamole with pomegranate, grilled chicken with goat cheese, and the Frida margarita topped off our night!
First Watch (http://www.firstwatch.com/) was our destination for breakfast. A breakfast place you want to arrive at early! The locals were lining up to be seated and I understood why after a terrific breakfast. After our meal we stopped next door at Her Majesty’s Closet (http://harzfelds.blogspot.com/2009/11/her-majestys-closet.html) Wow – found a dress to wear to the dinner theater! I was starting to feel like the one I took wouldn’t stretch enough with all the delicious food I had been eating. This was a consignment store of high end fashion that had a wonderful boutique feel. A few doors down from here we located the Victorian Trading Co. Catalog Outlet Boutique (http://www.victoriantradingco.com/), another catalog that is based out of Kansas City with an outlet. They had a tea room to rent, clothing and wide variety of Victorian home accessories.
Liz and I finished the afternoon off with a drive to the Historic and Antique section of Kansas City. Here we visited the Knotty Rug Company (http://www.knottyrug.com/index.php?page=home) a wide variety of area rugs with an educated staff. We took a stroll through the Morning Glory Antiques (http://morninggloryantiquesinc.com/)had an impressive collection of antiques for sale. After visiting with the staff here we learned that a lot of their collection and the other stores in the area were attending an antique show in Atlanta.
We rested at our hotel before joining our fellow Rotarian and his wife for the dinner theater production of Cactus Flower at New Theatre Restaurant (http://www.newtheatre.com). The food was fabulous and Loretta Swit and the rest of the actors and actresses were so entertaining! I loved the circular stage that could rotate to the next scene with ease. The 60’s themes sets and fashions were very authentic. The seating was comfortable and yes, you have to have dessert during intermission!
And I can’t forget to mention a delicious breakfast at Mimi’s (http://www.mimiscafe.com/) before our trek back home! Liz’s favorite is the French toast with the cream cheese and orange marmalade filling.
#1 Tip for Moving Aging Parents
Posted by: | Comments#1 Tip for Moving Aging Parents
The time as come to discuss your concerns about safety and health with your aging parents. They have happily lived in their home of 40 plus years. You have a plan and are determined to take action.
Let me share with you some information from our National Association of Senior Move Manager (NASMM) Conference.
Loss of Control
Most likely your parents will not want to move and when you begin to badger them with facts and figures of why they need to move they will stop listening to you. One important fact to consider is the older adult hates the loss of control they are seeing in their life at this moment. They will do all that they can to maintain control of what they have left – their home. I urge you to ask questions and listen carefully to get an understanding of how they might feel about the situation rather than making requests that will fall on deaf ears. In some situations the best choice is to stay in the home with some modifications. There are amazing options for aging in place. On the other hand the best choice might be moving to the retirement community in the neighborhood. Communities offer a wide range of personalized care and services. Allow your parents to consider the options and choices available.
Importance of a Story
Older adults want to feel that they have a legacy to leave behind, it’s very important to listen to their stories and allow them the privilege of telling it again. Whether there is a move in the future or a need for modification of the home, downsizing of the possessions is inevitable. It is easy for the older adult to part with items if they feel their story has been told.
#1 Tip
The #1 tip for helping a parent through the transition of a move is to ask for qualified help. A Senior Move Manager who is a member of NASMM will guide you through the process as you help as much or as little as you want. As a member of NASMM the Senior Move Manager will have insurance, recommendations, and the tools to help your family with an effortless move for Mom and Dad. One of the fascinating aspects of the NASMM Conference is meeting Senior Move Mangers from all over the United States and Canada. This network of people eases out of state transitions for families by giving peace of mind that help on both ends of the move will be of the same qualifications.
Whether you are moving your parents out of state, around the corner, or helping them to age in place find a member of NASMM to help you sort through the options and reduce YOUR stress.
Surviving the Holidays
Posted by: | CommentsTips for Surviving the Holidays
I wanted to share a few tips that I have learned over the years to help me get through Thanksgiving and Christmas as a peaceful and sane woman.
- Accept where you are at. Let’s face it, not every Christmas is the “Norman Rockwell Christmas” we picture in our heads. Tragedies happen, divorce, deaths, children leaving the nest and all the reminders that go with the loss seem to appear during the holidays. It’s ok to skip some of the “normal” traditions if you aren’t feeling up to it. But, do find a friend to talk to, write in your journal, find a counselor or pastor to help process the feelings. Don’t just stay busy with holiday plans and spending money to avoid dealing with what is going on in your life.
- Remember to take some time each day to just be quiet. Play a relaxing CD in the car while you are out and about. If we don’t take time to pray and listen to God, to fill our minds with uplifting music, we soon find ourselves spinning out of control thinking we are too busy to have a moment of quietness which truly helps to keep our focus on what is most important.
- Stop comparing yourself to others. Envying the neighbor or friend who appears to have it all together is a waste of time and energy. We are all good at putting “masks” on and we really don’t know what is going on behind the “perfectly” decorated house and family.
- Be nice to yourself. Sometimes I have to remove myself from the situation that is stressing me out and talk to myself like I would my best friend. After all if you can’t love yourself how can you love your neighbor as yourself?
- Ask for help! Sometimes as women we think we have to do it all and leave our family out of our plans for the Holidays. Accept the help you get. Your husband may not put away the dishes exactly like you do and that’s ok! Don’t re do it, just let is go and be thankful for the help. There are a lot of great recipes online for help with the big meals at Thanksgiving and Christmas. Check out www.savingdinner.com . The Thanksgiving menu and directions were a huge help to me when suddenly it was my turn to do the turkey and grandma wasn’t there to coach me!
- Sit down as a family and pick 7 things that make it Christmas at your home. Our pastor was doing a series about family and Christmas when my children were in grade school and this tip made a huge difference in my life. Was I ever surprised to learn that our children preferred putting lights up outside our house over making the gingerbread house! I was shocked at the things I had been stressing out about every year that didn’t even matter that much to them. So consult your family and others that are apart of your celebrations and see what they want to do.
Have a Blessed Thanksgiving and Christmas!
Christine Smart
www.designingmoves.net
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